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Turns out you don’t need to fork out for a West End show to see the performance of a lifetime. Enter stage left: The Performative Male.
The performative male is Gen-Z’s latest invention.
Find him wielding a tote bag, drinking a matcha latte and reading Sylvia Plath upside down. He wants your attention and has a tampon if you need one.
You’ll find him in baggy jeans, thrifted shirts and a Labubu attached to a carabiner. In theory they are men written by women, someone Sally Rooney invented. Yet, how much of this is an act?
Contestants were armed with period products – Courtesy of Ishika Desai, @ishika.photo
The online trend takes aim at men adopting feminist values and interests, for the sole purpose of female attention.
The meme has sparked viral contests around the world to crown the most performative male.
Last weekend, it was London’s turn.
Posers descended into Soho Square to battle it out to be named the city’s top performer.
Performative male contestants – Courtesy of Ishika Desai, @ishika.photo
Contestants pulled out all the stops.
There were impassioned speeches supporting “women’s rights and wrongs!”
One threw tampons to the cheering crowd. Another made his own matcha.
A duo even brought out a guitar and led a passionate rendition of Creepby Radiohead.
It was all about artificial aesthetics.
“I don’t really like the word performative” said contestant Alexander. He brought a record player because he prefers the way it makes the music sound – he won the contest.
Contestants delivered speeches to the crowds – Courtesy of Ishika Desai, @ishika.photo
But what happens when they break character?
The concept of a ‘performative male’ hinges on the manipulation of women. With men like Andrew Tate, the self-proclaimed “king of toxic masculinity”, are these faux feminists any better?
Glenta Ekhaguere, organiser of London’s contest, says “it’s more about their behaviour rather than what they’re wearing.”
For her, it’s a question of morality, where men are entering “women’s spaces in a very surface level way.”
Performative male essentials – Courtesy of Ishika Desai, @ishika.photo
Knowledge is clearly lacking.
When asked, most male Londoners did not shy away from their own lack of understanding.
One man said, “I have a lot to learn” , despite being raised by a mother who was “very vocal about feminism.”
Another said men are “probably not” informed on women’s issues. When asked if it’s possible to learn, he had the same answer.
In fact, only one man confidently believed he knew enough.
When asked to name a piece of feminist literature he came up empty. Perhaps a performative male whose mask was slipping.
It started as a light-hearted trend but actually shines a spotlight on a lack of knowledge needing to be addressed. It seems that all the world’s a stage and all the performative men are taking it too far.
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Turns out you don’t need to fork out for a West End show to see the performance of a lifetime. Enter stage left: The Performative Male.
The performative male is Gen-Z’s latest invention.
Find him wielding a tote bag, drinking a matcha latte and reading Sylvia Plath upside down. He wants your attention and has a tampon if you need one.
You’ll find him in baggy jeans, thrifted shirts and a Labubu attached to a carabiner. In theory they are men written by women, someone Sally Rooney invented. Yet, how much of this is an act?
Contestants were armed with period products – Courtesy of Ishika Desai, @ishika.photo
The online trend takes aim at men adopting feminist values and interests, for the sole purpose of female attention.
The meme has sparked viral contests around the world to crown the most performative male.
Last weekend, it was London’s turn.
Posers descended into Soho Square to battle it out to be named the city’s top performer.
Performative male contestants – Courtesy of Ishika Desai, @ishika.photo
Contestants pulled out all the stops.
There were impassioned speeches supporting “women’s rights and wrongs!”
One threw tampons to the cheering crowd. Another made his own matcha.
A duo even brought out a guitar and led a passionate rendition of Creepby Radiohead.
It was all about artificial aesthetics.
“I don’t really like the word performative” said contestant Alexander. He brought a record player because he prefers the way it makes the music sound – he won the contest.
Contestants delivered speeches to the crowds – Courtesy of Ishika Desai, @ishika.photo
But what happens when they break character?
The concept of a ‘performative male’ hinges on the manipulation of women. With men like Andrew Tate, the self-proclaimed “king of toxic masculinity”, are these faux feminists any better?
Glenta Ekhaguere, organiser of London’s contest, says “it’s more about their behaviour rather than what they’re wearing.”
For her, it’s a question of morality, where men are entering “women’s spaces in a very surface level way.”
Performative male essentials – Courtesy of Ishika Desai, @ishika.photo
Knowledge is clearly lacking.
When asked, most male Londoners did not shy away from their own lack of understanding.
One man said, “I have a lot to learn” , despite being raised by a mother who was “very vocal about feminism.”
Another said men are “probably not” informed on women’s issues. When asked if it’s possible to learn, he had the same answer.
In fact, only one man confidently believed he knew enough.
When asked to name a piece of feminist literature he came up empty. Perhaps a performative male whose mask was slipping.
It started as a light-hearted trend but actually shines a spotlight on a lack of knowledge needing to be addressed. It seems that all the world’s a stage and all the performative men are taking it too far.
